In loving memory of Samar Al Ansari: a loving daughter, wonderful sister, and great friend.
I sat in the lecture hall trying to
focus on the erudite professor’s lecture, but his insular views
on other countries’ policies left me distracted. My mind wandered off, I was too busy thinking
about how my relationship with Gunther went wrong. I have told myself time and again that it’s
over between us and I need to move on, but I can’t. I have tried to convince myself that he is
merely a source of pain and that I had aggrandized our relationship in
my head, thinking that it was something better and greater than what it really
was, but I can’t accept that. A memory
of me in his arms appeared in my mind, so I buried my face in my books to avoid
any unwanted questions as to why I was crying.
I
looked up and saw Gunther walking into class, late as usual. He had a special aura to him that
grabbed my attention now more than ever.
He never looked as good as he did that day. His thick, dark hair flowed over his ears,
and his unshaven face gave him a rather rugged look. I tried to look away, act as if he didn’t
matter, but I knew that he was the only person that did matter. To my delight and displeasure, he took the
seat beside me and smiled at me without saying a word. His smile was inscrutable; was he
trying to seduce me, or just be friendly?
I blocked the thought out of my head, and tried with the best of my
ability to despise him. “He broke
your heart,” I told myself, “and that action is irrevocable”. His hand touched mine, and I told myself that
it was merely an accident. I had thought
about the fate of our relationship for what seems like forever, and I came to
the conclusion that he doesn’t want me.
If he doesn’t want me, then I don’t want him either. I told myself he’s a sleazy, scurrilous heartbreaker
who doesn’t deserve my love, but deep down I knew that I could never believe
that. The sight of him made my heart
ache; I was the archetype of someone broken-hearted. Oh God, I thought to myself, I have begun to
feel sorry for myself!
The
class was dismissed, and I decided to take my time packing my things; I just
had to stay a little longer. Girls came
next to him, and began to talk to him, and I acted as if I didn’t care. I acted as if it wasn’t tearing me up inside;
I was so tempted to talk to him. I had
never noticed how affable he was even though I have been with him for
over two years. I was so tempted to talk
to him, but I didn’t because I was sedulous in trying to get over
him. As I put my bag on my shoulder, he
tapped my back and called my name. My
heart gave a little jump, but I just walked away. That action made everyone think that I had repudiated
our relationship, and it was inferred that I had gotten over him,
and that I no longer cared about him. I
was proud of myself, but my heart still ached.
I felt this huge weight on my heart, because I kept everything bottled
up inside. I didn’t want to confide in
someone, because they might see me as querulous. I walked home telling myself that I
despised him and that I was over him, but I felt so much love for him. They weren’t lying when they said there was a
thin line between love and hate.
Samar Al Ansari
Grade 11.5
11 November 2004
